The story of Joseph comes to a conclusion as he reencounters his family, and the themes of this long story find dramatic and satisfying resolution (Genesis 42:1 – 47:12). The account of the reunion is a long one, characterized by fascinating and psychologically astute details depicting the emergence of recognition, remembrance, and reconciliation.
Joseph recognizes his brothers long before they realize who he is. He uses the advantage to set in train a complex set of events that bind the family more and more to him, while confusing them about his intentions. They are surprised that the ruler of Egypt gives time and attention to them, and horrified when he accuses them of being spies, a danger to the national security of Egypt. They are at a loss to understand why he insists that Benjamin, the youngest son left at home as Jacob’s favorite, must come before Joseph in Egypt. When Benjamin does make the trip, and to the horror of his brothers is imprisoned as a thief, Judah offers himself as a hostage. In the process of these negotiations we see already the fulfillment of prophecy: the brothers more than once end up on their faces before Joseph. The speech of Judah is remarkable for its openness and rambling honesty, and in the plot of this story it is the thing that breaks the stalemate: Joseph is no longer able to keep the ruse up, but discloses who he is to his brothers, and gives vent to the full depth of his emotions. The reconciliation is successful, and Jacob is brought down to Egypt to see his son once more. In fact the whole tribe decamps from the ancestral environs of Hebron, and moves to the lush fields of Goshen to settle there.
Why does Joseph engage everyone in these games of hiding and disclosure? Some read this as a return of Joseph’s brash and teasing ways, showing that he has not yet achieved maturity. I tend to side with others, who feel that the story has already shown that Joseph has changed, and that when he manipulates his brothers in this way, he is orchestrating a careful path to recognition and reconciliation that has a certain degree of psychological necessity and wisdom. There are other stories that emphasize the need for care in restoring broken relationship. I think of the final scenes of the Odyssey, when Odysseus, having returned to his home in Ithaca and slaughtered the suitors, having convinced everyone else that he is the returning lord of the palace, nevertheless sits with his wife Penelope and submits to her long and careful testing: Is he really her husband? Toward the other end of the cultural spectrum, the Tom Hanks/Meg Ryan movie “You’ve Got Mail” also shows the care the Hanks character takes, in revealing that the ruthless businessman and the sensitive conversation partner are one and the same. In this reading, Joseph is actually using his full powers of human insight and management to produce a satisfactory and healing conclusion to the pain of the family.
The story is clear too about Joseph’s own struggle and pain, even in the reconciliation process. While talking with his brothers he must turn aside to weep (43:30), and at the moment of disclosure he breaks into such sobbing that, despite his attempts at privacy, all of Egypt finds out what has happened (45:1-3). He can himself be open to the reconciliation process because he has learned about the God who has brought it about. His one-sentence summary of the meaning of the entire story shows the depths of his devotion to God, and challenges ours as well. He tells his brothers, “You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good.” (50:20. See also 45:5-7) He is able to accept all his trials as tools in the hands of the Lord for a greater purpose, as he has been able to receive the presence and strength of God all along the path, each step of the way.
Respond
We would never wish to say that God wills pain for us. But we also can take heart from this story, and from other passages of Scripture, that no situation is so bad that God is not able to work within it to redeem it (Romans 8:28). Certainly no situation is so bad that God is not able to make the love of his presence known to us within it (Romans 8:3-39). This is great comfort for us, and great comfort that we can share with others in the time of their need as well.
Pray
“I will extol Thee, O Lord, for Thou has lifted me up, and hast not let my enemies rejoice over me. O Lord my God, I cried to Thee for help, and Thou didst heal me….” Psalm 30:1-2
D.D.